The last time I saw you You embraced me in love We were both grieving  I was comforted Held tight by your hug   The last time I saw you Neither of us knew  This grasp would be our last  But sadly, blessedly, none of us can ever know  until those moments are passed  Blessedly, because … Continue reading For April… →

Linda Higgs first appears in my memory when I was a child. Among those first vivid memories is that of her sharing a testimony at our small rural Pentecostal church. Testimonies were short reports of God’s goodness, blessing, or faithfulness designed to encourage others, and they were a staple of the Pentecostal worship service. Congregants … Continue reading Remembering Linda… →

Our beloved River has passed. His fifteen years on this earth and in our lives were marked by joy and unconditional love that can only be shared between humans and dogs. River came to our home during a difficult season for our family.  Candy and I were separated and at the time and it was … Continue reading Grieving River… →

For most people, the Christmas season evokes two extreme emotions. the warm fuzzy nostalgic notions of a time gone by or the frustrated, frazzled, and otherwise fatigued efforts to capture those romanticized emotions. Pastor Micah Sutton offers a third alternative when it comes to celebrating the Christmas season, in his book Noel: Bringing Your God-Designed … Continue reading Christmas for Dreamers, Leaders, and Doers. →

These are my typed notes for my father's eulogy delivered November 17, 2021. I improvised a bit at times, so for the full message please see the video link. https://youtu.be/2y1DUpqTzUo Thanks to Joshua Loyd for the recording. Ninety-three years is an amazing testament. Dad witnessed the invention of Tupperware, the credit card, and hair spray. … Continue reading A Eulogy for Dad →

When you’re a thinker you are burdened with a certain way of seeing the world. You cannot view it as others, and you will have great difficulty enjoying the present as the past and future insist on getting equal time. You do not have the luxury of merely being amused (literally without thinking) but are constantly bombarded … Continue reading When you are a thinker →

Increasingly, it seems that the angst among some white communities over changing demographics, and resulting cultural power, is escalating. There is a renewed effort, especially in Republican led states to pass legislation to condemn the use of Critical Race Theory under the guise that it may cause students to feel uncomfortable. The need to be … Continue reading Christians? What are your children learning in that school? →

The affable George Constanza of Seinfeld fame once encouraged a balding boyfriend of Elaine’s that in the face of his irreversible receding hairline he should “Live dammit! Live!” Good advice for those of us finding ourselves with terminal male pattern baldness as well as struggling with the meaning of life.  https://youtu.be/8cTkTEpEYfk Live Dammit! Lately I’ve been contemplating … Continue reading “Live Dammit! Live!” →

I wish I could tell you that everything is going to be alright. I can’t make any guarantees. There are none in this life. Increasingly, I find it easier to check out mentally than I do to try. It is a tactic that I picked up as a kid. In reading groups, I would try … Continue reading Note to self →

https://youtu.be/YV0IRhyYl9Q Sometimes the best thing to do is lift a hand and say "It's me!"